Social: Deeper Look

The social facet might be the hardest to conceptualize because there is more to this than just the people you interact with. Parts of socializing include communicating, even though the skill of communication is from the mind, the act of communicating is purely social. You could see the act of socializing as a way of trying to spread your idea of who you are and make it match up with how other people see you. This goes both directions, sometimes you learn more about your social self and it adjusts your inner idea of who you are but more commonly you’re expressing your feelings and beliefs to other people and they’re changing their mental model of who you are, this happens millions of times a day with everyone you meet.

One example of something that I believe would be social is money. The things that you buy with money can influence all of your facets but simply having a lot of money in the bank would be social in my opinion. Think of money as a contract with other people that says you have contributed to society and therefore are obligated to something in return so you spend some of your “contributions” to get things. This idea is purely social because it is based around the idea that money is a tool or agreement between people.

One reason that social connections are so important is because you can’t be an expert in everything. The intent of this method is to become balanced but you should be careful about letting your core strengths become dull. Find other people that will be able to help you achieve your goals and that you can help them achieve theirs, we’re always stronger together as a group than on our own.

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